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How Long Is Too Long?
I am sure some ladies would have to say that too long is about 10 inches, haha I kid.
Too long is when you got that nice sweat going, but things may be chafing a little bit and you can feel the sweat on your junk and in the condom, if you are wearing one that is, and you look at each other and start laughing. That can hit anywhere between the 35 minute mark and the hour mark.
It depends on: What time of day is it? What was I doing just before? What do I plan to do after? How drunk am I? Am I stoned? How stoned? What time of the month (ovulating, period, etc.) is it? What’s my mood? What’s YOUR mood? How much do we like each other? Am I hungry? You get the idea. But let’s say the stars are perfectly aligned and I’m horny and wet and we like each other a lot that day/night and I’m perfectly inebriated? About an hour.
For me, I like a good solid two to three hours of fucking. If it ends too quickly (and that was not what I wanted) then I just get disappointed. I truly fight not to roll my eyes if it ends too early. I am all about committing to the time, especially if it is spent exploring each other. Lube, of course, is the key. It is important to have it in reach at all times.
Normally, I would say “do what feels good.”
But when too much sex leads to a UTI… the feeling good part quickly dissolves into extreme pain and loss of desire. It happens more often than you think. People don’t talk about it because it’s embarrassing, but extremely long sessions of intercourse can easily lead to urinary tract infections for people who are prone to getting them. Take breaks, relax and communicate with your partner. Also, keep cranberry juice in the house.
I am a fan of hours of fucking. Occasional quickies are great and have their place in the time spectrum. My average session lasts about anywhere from an hour to two hours, and that’s the perfect sweet spot. Occasional all nighters where you cum while the morning birds are singing are fun too! The big qualifier for a session being too long is if you can feel your clit or not. It all depends on how hard you’re going at it. If your vagania is getting murdered for hours and your clit is so numb that you can’t cum again – that’s too long.